Yeats qsts whether we have to be genuine with each other to truly build a rtshp. Is the mask of us enough?
Wht does it matter that i dnt knw you favorite colour or your most treasured memory. Are rtshps based on libraries and catalogues of each other or on the now and how we share it?
Is fake affection any less than real affection if the receiver believ it?
Isn't what we believe more important than what is? Whether the world is flat or round it al counts for nought if i nevr leave my couch. Whether a friend is true or fake counts for nought if our friendship is never testd.
I thnk the best friendships constantly create themselves whn your together, they spontaneously explode lyk a venus flytrap at the touch of a fly
i get where your coming from but the issue is that the reason most people place alot of weight on their pals remembering these things, as mediocre as they seem, because if someone remembers them willingly, selflessly n mostly effortlessly then its a sign of love, proof of your importance in their life. Doesn't this kill the falseness of remembering things such as whats ur best pals fave colour etc
ReplyDeleteEffortles recolection as a sign of love! What is the worth of a thousand beautiful thoughts in a rtshp where love knows no physical expresion. N wht of a love wher nthn is recald bt evryday its renewd by new expresions of care, gratitude, honest affection...
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